Enough “Mommy Shaming”

myboy

This boy

He is my whole heart and he keeps me going on a daily basis.
Am i exhausted? Most of the time.
Is the part of the “job” ? Most certainly.

I hear and see so much judgment from MOMS to OTHER MOMS about how theyre raising they’re babies/toddlers/kids.

Breastfed
Non breastfed
Soother
No soother
Blanket
No blanket
Routine
No routine.

Its a bunch of BS.
I would do ANYTHING for this small human. Literally. And as long as I know it isn’t going to HARM him in any way shape of form, you can bet I’m going to be okay with it.
He’s getting 2 year molars and wants his soother outside of the crib, yeah buddy today you can cause mommy can’t imagine how your feeling.
OR , baby wants to cluster nurse cause they’re going through a growth spurt OR they just want the comfort. SO FREAKING WHAT!
Don’t enjoy nursing and get overwhelmed? than the bottle is FINE!
Want to nurse until they’re 3? GO FOR IT!
Let them. Be there for them, do what you can and follow your mommy gut.
It’s a real thing, and it changes motherhood.

Who am i to Judge you for your choices? This mommy world is freaking HARD!

Disregard all the comments or articles you read on FB about mothering and how YOU should do it. Your baby is your baby. And they are different from mine and Mary maxims up the road.

Your doing great, and this world and mothering community would be a much brighter place without all this judgment that floats around.

Rant over πŸ‘­πŸ™‹.

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#nomomshaming

Watch “Lower body workout – baby weighted!” on YouTube

One of Brayden and mines favorite mini-workouts!!

While performing these, watch your posture and your form -Be sure that you can see your toes past your knees!

10 reps of each exercise
2 sets
(Or more)

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Tips for the new mommy

If I had to sum up mommy-hood I think I’d describe it as life changing!

Β  While your pregnant you have SO many people tell you how great it is, or how tiring it is and advice?! LOL you get so much over whelming advice that eventually you just stop listening before your brain explodes!
Truth is- its INCREDIBLE! Its incredibly amazing and incredibly exhausting but in such an amazing way! You are so tired but you can’t wait for them to wake from they’re nap just to see them smile again, you can’t wait to show them off and watch them learn new things. I hate missing a single moment of braydens day!

There is no words to describe the love you have for your child! And your partner? Just knowing that the two of you created such a beautiful little being increases your bond and your love for one another!

Β  If I was to give any advice to a new mommy, it’d be:
1. Do what you feel is right! Chances are its the right thing for your baby! You know they’re needs more than anyone!
2. Don’t let go of you! Have a 5 minute shower, put on a touch of mascara and a clean outfit! It sounds crazy now but the days fly by and before you know it its 8pm and your still in PJs! Your baby will always love you, but you have to love you also!!
3. Get out of the house! Even just a walk to get the mail, a drive for coffee or to a girlfriends house will do you and the babe good!!
4. Routine! I’m a strong believer in a healthy routine, for us we always make sure that from 5pm and on is always the same for brayden! Sure everyday is a little different they may nap longer in the morning and shorter in the afternoon – so what! Don’t stress, just find a balanced ‘routine’ that works and go with it! I know braydens has changed a few times now as he’s grown and we just do our best to make sure he has the comfort of knowing what’s happening next πŸ™‚
5. Have time for your partner! A movie, a night out, snuggles on the couch! Anything to remember your love for each other!

Xo